For many years I struggled with patience and loving my wife. I could always say it and most of the time I felt it. But the challenge for me was knowing how to show it in a consistent way that made sense. Even when I thought I was showing love in one way. My other actions would contradict me and cause Janet to question if I really loved her or not.

The truth is my lack of patience and the love I said I had were in direct contradiction of each other. Because if I really loved her I would have also been patient with her. Read more